tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2785267653272942804.post4707696808823819244..comments2012-08-20T20:11:54.185-07:00Comments on life after Alfie: 133 coffee, sunshine, fresh air, smiles, laughs, crazy kids.......clarehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12892908525626265119noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2785267653272942804.post-5066892123520050632012-05-17T06:44:22.598-07:002012-05-17T06:44:22.598-07:00Speaking from the point of view of a grandparent -...Speaking from the point of view of a grandparent - I think I can assure you that the time your Mom and Dad spent with the grand children just enhanced and expanded the love they have for each other and you and the children. That's what its like to be a grandparent; as a grandmother I love my children more through their children and even though I don't have a lovely man like your dad to share my beautiful grands with, I do share a kind of connection with Barron because they are our children and grand children.<br /><br />I'm just saying, don't spend any time feeling guilty, Clare; be joyful for all the love you and your beautiful children have given your parents. Grandchildren are never a burden unless the parents aren't doing their parent job and I don't believe that is the case with you and Pug.<br /><br />You have just been giving your parents more joy - not taking away at all from their love; just adding to it.Cathrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152498049699614729noreply@blogger.com